They forget to tell you that when you feel hopeless and just hate where your life is at the moment that it’s going to be a lot harder to “get up and change it” especially if you’re suffering from a mental illness. You’ll get up and try and collapse, you’ll go to start something new and be denied again and again until your anxiety is out of control. I don’t want to be told “change it if you’re not happy then” because it’s so much more difficult than that.








